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I wish you misfortune and suffering.

 "For many years to come, I hope you are treated unfairly, I hope you suffer betrayal, I wish you often feel lonely, I wish you often have bad luck on your life's journey, I wish you are ignored, I wish you suffer excruciating pain." "Only by being treated unfairly can you truly understand the value of justice; only by suffering betrayal can you realize the importance of loyalty; only by often feeling lonely can you not take good friends for granted." "Only by having bad luck can you realize the role of probability and opportunity in life, and thus understand that your success is not entirely predetermined, and others' failures are not a given." "Only by failing and being ridiculed can you understand the importance of a competitive spirit with grace; only by being ignored can you realize the importance of listening to others; only by suffering excruciating pain can you empathize and sympathize with others." These words, like curses, are e...

Before Death

   One day, we will all die.   We are born with nothing, and what will we take with us when we die? Sunrise and sunset, grass growing and birds flying, year after year, this cycle repeats itself. So what is the meaning of our existence?   Are we, like actors, performing in a TV series, only to have our performance end?   Have you ever pondered the meaning of your existence? Are you simply waiting to die, or are you striving and struggling? Are you also suffering from these negative emotions, feeling depressed and overwhelmed with sadness?   One day, a friend told me: "I've been so pessimistic lately, unbearably pessimistic. You know, people can just disappear like that. One day someone is perfectly fine, and then suddenly they're gone in an accident. An earthquake strikes without warning while you're asleep, or even while you're walking. I don't know if all this striving and hard work is even worthwhile."   Yes, what is the meaning?   None of us know when ...

Do you think your illness can be cured by falling in love?

 Honestly, whenever I hear a girl complain, "If only I had a boyfriend, this and that would be so much better," I get speechless. Why do they always so naively attribute their current problems to not having a boyfriend? It's like having a boyfriend would magically solve everything. I just want to say: Ha! Like a girl I knew before, she was the typical type who hoped love would save her from all her problems . She was notoriously lazy and a homebody in her dorm. She basically spent all her time lounging around, sometimes even having her roommates bring her food. She ate in bed. Her biggest hobbies were watching Korean dramas and complaining about life. Life is full of disappointments , so she often says things like, "I'm so bored every day. If only I had a boyfriend to take me out," "I failed my exam . If only I had a boyfriend, he could help me study , " "When I don't have enough money for living expenses, if only I had a boyfriend, he cou...

Interesting souls are rare, why can't you be one of them?

 01. Physical appearance is beyond our control, but an interesting soul can be cultivated through effort. Most people's minds are often filled with various ideas and possibilities, yet they rarely put them into practice. This is because before even starting, they create numerous obstacles for themselves, leading to failed changes and new possibilities turning into new regrets. However, some people are adept at trying various changes in the small things of life. As the saying often circulates on social media: "A beautiful appearance is a dime a dozen, but an interesting soul is one in a million." I used to think that change was a privilege of the young, because they had a gene called "romance" that motivated them to take action. However, I suddenly realized that it's not that we lack the "romance" gene, but rather that we lack a little courage and choose to bury our desires deep inside. While not everyone is born with a beautiful appearance, everyon...

Perhaps, we are all growing.

 I'm sure many of you can relate to being pressured by your parents to do things. But what happens after I've made my choices? They always try to impose their own ideas on me, trying to change my path. Like today, they kept telling me to stay here, but when I chose to stay and wanted to do something else and not go back home this year, they kept finding fault with me. I feel so helpless…

Waiting for you to eat

 People rushing home every evening aren't just there for dinner; it's more about the longing for home , especially the longing for the kitchen. The kitchen is where life is filled with the warmth of cooking, where family bonds are forged. There are many moments in the world where "just right" happen— I've just put the food on the table and you've just walked in. Perhaps that's the happiest moment for you , but for me, the instant I sneak a bite and swallow my saliva when the food is on the table is the most joyful and delicious moment.

Lenovo of graduation certificate

   , holding the heavy yet light certificate, I felt a sense of closure after more than a decade of schooling. Ignoring countless ellipses, a big question mark still looms over the future.   From now on, we are no longer students, but members of society. Yet, the vibrant tapestry of social life has only just begun. There will be no teachers to guide us, no one to highlight key points, and no practice exams. However, some future exams may be more important than any of our school days, or perhaps they will be like ripples on a calm lake, spreading meaningless circles.   I am about to stumble into an unfamiliar world, a world I have countless times envied and even demanded my parents and the adults around me treat me the way they treat adults. Entering this world is an inevitable part of life. My parents, teachers, relatives, and friends have done a great deal of preparation work beforehand, and more than a decade of schooling has been the most basic and solid preparation. Receiving t...